10 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER RUSH IN LIFE, NO MATTER THE PRESSURE.
1. OWNING A CAR.
Sure, it's a really good thing to own a car and that makes you feel good. This helps you to arrive on time to your destination. If your car is flashy enough, you can get to hang out with some stunning ladies too. Yet you are confident that you are ready for this. Owning a car at the end of the day that doesn't pull in money is no accomplishment. And, when it breaks down, you'll have to refill the car and do some minor repairs. You'll end up spending more money on the car at the end of the day which makes it a liability. Should not spend the money instead of buying a car?
2. MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP PUBLIC.
One thing most men do when they are so in love is to show their wife's pictures online. They publicize their relation; they do not matter what they will have in the nearest future. Having your relationship public clearly means that you are committed to it. Are you sure you're ready to commit? I leave it there for you to find there.
3. FORNICATION
I think that everyone reading this article is guilty of that very one right now. If everyone does it does it does not matter; or did it. That doesn't make it right. In God's sight fornication isn't right. Besides, why rush into something you'll get tired of when you get married? Besides that, it could lead to unwanted pregnancy and illegitimacy ...... and you'll end up committing yourself to this child. You can never fulfill all of your hopes and ambitions. Are you sure you're ready?
4. MARRIAGE
Marriage is often one thing that most people hurry into and confuse for an accomplishment. Personally, I see marriage as more of an partnership than an achievement. Look at it from this angle; you 're now committed to your partner and family the moment you 're married. You can't hold the late nights pointless without being asked after you returned. By consulting your significant other you will make those decisions. So be sure you are ready to commit yourself before thinking about jumping into some sort of commitment at an early age.
5. CHOICE OF CAREER
Many people commit to careers that they don't know much about just because their best friends go into it. Don't end up doing what you're not good at just because you want your mates to be where they are. Try to have yourself a quiet time and know what's working for you. Do not waste years of your life doing nothing, while your friends set their own course. Be aware about what you are going into before you devote your time.
6. Kids
It is another type of commitment ...... and I can also say it is an achievement. Yet you can only reap this one's advantages if you've managed to train your kids to become responsible people. Don't go and bear children simply because you just put your neighbor's wife to bed. You have to understand that children will get in between you and your work too. So, before you think about having kids, you have to be very sure you're ready to be another dedicated parent, you may rush out.
7. Financial Investment
An investment is one thing you don't want to be pressured into. This is really mistake that most people make. They prefer to leap into company that they don't know about, simply because their friends or neighbors do it well. Will not work for B what works for A. You have to understand that you must love and have a passion for what you want to sell before you venture into any form of business. If not, then you could find yourself rushing out.
8. ENDING A RELATIONSHIP
Even because your desires are not satisfied, you do not have to end your relationship. It rains my dear everywhere. You ought to know how many years you've spent in the partnership before running out of it .... these things often get backfired. You have to calm down, take a deep breath and think about your decision before taking it. If you want to devote yourself to begging your ex later.
9. SIGNING OF LEGAL DOCUMENTS
Regardless of how hard you are under pressure to sign a legal document, do not do so without reading and knowing what you want to sign. You should get a lawyer to read it for you and describe it in depth before they sign it if you do not know the substance. Don't rush to sign an agreement, otherwise you can regret your decision.
10. CHOOSING FRIENDS
Maintaining people who are meant to be just coworkers, acquaintances, is often an error. They don't know that they were brought together by this mission. This is one of the reasons why these people are always heartbreaker when their friends betray them.
You must not hurry to trust a totally alien because you had to work together. Sometimes you just have to invite some people and follow your own course. If you're lucky enough to have only two faithful mates, you 're happy ... you're blessed in your whole life. Some people don't have friends until they're gone.
I hope that today you will learn something new? In the comment section below, let me know what you think. In the comments section below, if there is something you want me to talk about. Feel free to like this article and share this with your friends too .....
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